Recently, I had the opportunity to teach a class to a group of singles in our church and the topic was anger. I asked, “What makes you angry?”
Some of the answers included things, other drivers, little/older siblings, and not listening.
Not listening
Why does this happen and what prevents people from listening to someone else? I believe three of the reasons are:
- People are too busy and rushed to stop and listen to what others are saying. Take a breath and realize the importance of listening to people. Listening builds connection and credibility.
- Not placing value on other people. Listening builds stronger relationships.
- Pride and ego. Life is full of people who think that they are better than others. That is nothing more than arrogance. We need to humble ourselves and listen to what the other person is saying. Listening builds respect.
Remember, failing to listen is a failure to connect, and a failure to connect is a failure to successfully communicate with others.
